I recently had the opportunity to speak to a woman that I like very much. She told me that if my blog was any indication of how our attachment was going, things were just hunky dory. She used a better term than hunky dory, but I can't remember what it was.
I think we can all agree that attchment is an ongoing, lifelong, difficult process.
My Habesha Tortuga is quite attached to me. He strokes my arm when I hold him. He hugs and kisses me. He still prefers to sleep with his toes gripping my ribs to make sure that I am right there. When I say, "How much does mommy love you?" he squeals back, "Soooooooooo Much!!!"
Meazi is a tougher nut to crack. I know she likes me. Some days are beautiful. Some days are difficult.
She put in an envelope addressed to "Julie".
I know that I am her mommy.
Sometimes to her...
I am just Julie.